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In life and love don't ever play games. If you love someone,

TELL them..

if you don't.. TELL them, the human heart is a very complex thing

in that it makes us do the strangest things when it reaches a point of

desperation especially when we are hurting. Im sure many of us have

reached that point where we find ourselves attacking the competition "In

the name of Love" even attacking the object of your affection, some of

us have even found ourselves hiding behind bushes or tagging the car

playing spy.

At the end of it, all relationships, whether friendships or

romance need two elements to survive- communication and compromise and

it needs another two elements to fall apart - pride and stupidity.

Too proud to say im sorry, too proud to say im hurting, too proud

to say im feeling a little insecure.

And so stupid, stupid enough to let them go because you think

they will be back, stupid enough not to tell them that you love them

because you think they will stick around longer if you play hard to get,

stupid enough to not answer their calls when you have a fight because

you want to make them hurt and you want to teach them a lesson they'll

never forget...Watch out you are not the one who learns a lesson... If

its worth a great person walking out of your life, possibly for good..

then by all means knock yourself out.

But don't cry when that person never calls again, or finds solace

in another's arms. or throws themself off of a twenty story building

becasue the pain you were causing them was too much to bear. (stupid but


Don't cry when a beautiful relationship is broken and can't be

fixed because YOU chose to play games instead of laying your cards on

the table and working it out. Say exactly what you feel and ask exactly

what you want to know. No matter how STUPID you sound... At least you

will know exactly where you stand.

And even if after you've poured your heart out and it still

doesn't work out.. You will be at peace because you know you did your

best on your part... Your conscience will be clear and you will move on

knowing that you didn't go down without a fight.

Loving someone is not a game.

People are not pyramids... you can't go off on your own selfish

trip and expect to find them in the exact same spot you left them weeks

ago. If you don't take care of your partners needs when they need you

to. What guarantee do you have that somebody else won't.

So when you find your partner in your best friend's arms or hear

they are getting married to someone you had guaranteed was just a

"rebound trip" three months after you let them go without a fight...

Dont cry... Coz while you were busy playing games... Somebody

else wasn't

Love without reservations; live without regrets.

"Always reach for the moon, if you don't make it, at least you'll

fall among the stars!!!" :engel: