Smokers should not bedshare with babies

[Ameniatha]

I have never smoked....I only ever smoke when I get really really sloshed...which is very seldom..

Anyhow, I agree with the Icecub on this one...there are no golden rules for making your baby bond with you better. I believe that providing a loving stable home is just as vital. Showing and giving your children the love and support they need when they want it etc..

Andy sleeps in his own cot, he has done this from 4½ months. And his big bro got the same treatment. René has a very strong bond with both of us. So ...