16-02-2007, 11:16 AM
gwasi Wrote:I am thinking of her family and all that they must be going through, all the feelings, the questions, but you're right Cubbie once the mind is made up. Having said that tho I wonder what would have happened if she was stopped. Would she has received the help that she needed?
She was loved and cared for by many but also many are insensative, and that is a worry.
Yes many were insensitive when my BIL did it, it was not a pleasant time at all, my sister felt guilty dreaming up all sorts of reasons why he did it, until she went for therapy and was made to realise it was not her fault.
Alot of people who do not succeed in the first attempts will try it again, even with medical help, it has to take alot of counselling and good help to make sure it does not happen again.
Hope the family are doing okay so far..
