25-05-2006, 06:30 PM
Venus Wrote:I'm so sorry for your loss. :hug: I have experienced similar feelings over the death of my gran. I wasn't able to attend her funeral & it's hard to accept that she is gone. I understand what you are going through. It's probably a good idea to share how you are feeling with other people. :lovef:
NB like the others I am sorry to hear of your loss. I lost one of my best friends at the end of last year and could not attend the funeral, like you I have felt this loss very hard to cope with. Silly things like not deleting any emails I still have in my in box from him, to taking his phone number off my mobile. I am sure that when I have come to terms with it I will get there but I am taking it one day at a time. I think if you are feeling that it is not getting better then I agree with the idea of getting bereavement counselling. Also it's important to remember that you and your brother will deal with it differently and I am sure it has nothing to do with the fact of him having been around your brother more.
Take care . :hug: