02-02-2006, 09:54 AM
I am the oldest of four girls....and yes i have felt i have been pressured to be the ultimate example in behaviour etc....but it has paid off as they always come to me if they are experiencing problems etc...and somehow they respect me as i do not butt into their affairs, i tend to keep my distance if there is strife in the midst...i always give advice but never take sides...they even think twice about telling me certain things as they know it upsets me....
My second oldest sister and I were brought up very strictly, but Mom let down the reigns with the two youngest and they got away with murder.... :crylol: which we resented but have gotten over it.....
So in my experience i am the serious one of the lot, taking responsibility for them - even being here i still get phoned and asked about stuff....it tends to weigh heavily on my shoulders....no wonder i am Aquarius... :rofl:
My second oldest sister and I were brought up very strictly, but Mom let down the reigns with the two youngest and they got away with murder.... :crylol: which we resented but have gotten over it.....
So in my experience i am the serious one of the lot, taking responsibility for them - even being here i still get phoned and asked about stuff....it tends to weigh heavily on my shoulders....no wonder i am Aquarius... :rofl: