04-01-2007, 11:44 PM
My sympathies. What a time for it all to go petong.
She probably just doesn't want any unpleasantness. It would be perfectly reasonable for you to suggest not seeing each other in the near future in order to get ver the worst of it. Then when you feel you are ready, perhaps you could pop in for a few moments and feel the water.
Most importantly, don't let this make you lose motivation for getting more fit and more confident... YOU are the person you should be focussing on, not her.
Meanwhile, veels geluk :thumbs:
She probably just doesn't want any unpleasantness. It would be perfectly reasonable for you to suggest not seeing each other in the near future in order to get ver the worst of it. Then when you feel you are ready, perhaps you could pop in for a few moments and feel the water.
Most importantly, don't let this make you lose motivation for getting more fit and more confident... YOU are the person you should be focussing on, not her.
Meanwhile, veels geluk :thumbs: