29-07-2005, 07:52 PM
Bean of Love Wrote:Thanx JoanShe is a visitor, if you do not declare giving her the money,..............
I dont mind payng cash in hand...for all means an purpouses she is just a friend visiting.
I am however worried about our ILR status
For 6 months you will be ok, but after that?
Please do take into account your baby's interests...............your ex employee may be wonderful, but when she has to return to SA, what about the happiness etc of your baby?
Bean, think long and think hard before you make any decision.......