19-02-2007, 12:55 PM
Hi Ndlovu :thumbs:
I hope that things have gone well for you, it's ben 6 weeks or so since you first posted regarding your breakup. How're things going with you now, have you come to terms with what's happened and looking forward to a good and exciting future?
How is the 'friends' thing coming along, what did you decide/do? For my part I don't think that friend's straight off is a good thing - be friendly, but don't be friends as such. That comes after time, when your own feelings are not so confused and raw, and she knows where her own future is going.
As Gwasi stated above, don't get in to the position where you're her rock/sounding board for every escapade and drama in her life. She's made the choice to be single, don't hurt yourself and your future by giving her the benefits of marriage/partnership.
I wish you all the best for the future my friend :detective:
I hope that things have gone well for you, it's ben 6 weeks or so since you first posted regarding your breakup. How're things going with you now, have you come to terms with what's happened and looking forward to a good and exciting future?
How is the 'friends' thing coming along, what did you decide/do? For my part I don't think that friend's straight off is a good thing - be friendly, but don't be friends as such. That comes after time, when your own feelings are not so confused and raw, and she knows where her own future is going.
As Gwasi stated above, don't get in to the position where you're her rock/sounding board for every escapade and drama in her life. She's made the choice to be single, don't hurt yourself and your future by giving her the benefits of marriage/partnership.
I wish you all the best for the future my friend :detective: