05-10-2006, 02:16 PM
Sterkte gwasi....
You don't have to defend or explain yourself.... you know it is not true. Don't act quickly and give them more fuel to gossip. Talk it through with your partner and that is the most important thing.
With the lady at work - keep your head up! You deserved the promotion by the sound of it. It is not what is happening to us in life, but how we react that is important. It is difficult I know but at the end of the day it is their responsibility. There is a saying that "hurting people hurt people" and that is obviously what they are trying to achieve.
Walk the road of forgiveness gwasi - keep on forgiving until it doesn't hurt anymore and at the end of the day you will be the winner!
:hugs:
You don't have to defend or explain yourself.... you know it is not true. Don't act quickly and give them more fuel to gossip. Talk it through with your partner and that is the most important thing.
With the lady at work - keep your head up! You deserved the promotion by the sound of it. It is not what is happening to us in life, but how we react that is important. It is difficult I know but at the end of the day it is their responsibility. There is a saying that "hurting people hurt people" and that is obviously what they are trying to achieve.
Walk the road of forgiveness gwasi - keep on forgiving until it doesn't hurt anymore and at the end of the day you will be the winner!
:hugs: