10-01-2007, 08:13 AM
Crikey, I hope it does not take me long to move on. We met 5 years ago, got engaged a year later. I feel that I have made peace with the fact that she is out the door and I cannot change that.
I've purged the flat of all of her things, she's got the photo albums , the neg's are in the loft, I've put all the digital pic's on disc and those are in the loft too. Out of sight out of mind as it were.
We are likely to part on fairly amicable terms, as we really did just want different things from life and had outgrown each other.
I think I'll find it easier if I have no contact from her and hopefully not hear of her either, the not hearing of her will be tricky due to the mutual friends but I think they'll understand if I ask not to be given any news on her life.
I'll cross that bridge when I get to it ...
My wee problem pales in comparrison to some of the tales found on these boards so that helps keep perspective...
I've purged the flat of all of her things, she's got the photo albums , the neg's are in the loft, I've put all the digital pic's on disc and those are in the loft too. Out of sight out of mind as it were.
We are likely to part on fairly amicable terms, as we really did just want different things from life and had outgrown each other.
I think I'll find it easier if I have no contact from her and hopefully not hear of her either, the not hearing of her will be tricky due to the mutual friends but I think they'll understand if I ask not to be given any news on her life.
I'll cross that bridge when I get to it ...
My wee problem pales in comparrison to some of the tales found on these boards so that helps keep perspective...