13-01-2004, 01:58 PM
Quote:Originally posted by elrsa
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I just wish that all that money we pump into NI could go more towards mother's who wish to care for their own children.
whilst i agree that is it sad for her not to have this option and those that hae the options are lucky but the child is 1 year and this is the usual age that working mums go back to work - even 3 to 6 months at our work
it is sad that she wishes to stay at home but is unable
i dont agree that the tax payers have to pay for this tho - a child is your decision adn u and ur family must cope and budget accordingly - i dont like ppl sponging off those who do work
we have enough of those in the dodgy areas were women have babies to get money !